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Infant Loss, Awareness & Support Network
Evelyn Rose Foundation
"The mention of my child's name may bring tears to my eyes, but it never fails to bring music to my ears. If you are really my friend, let me hear the beautiful music of their name. It soothes my broken heart and sings to my soul." Author Unknown
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~ I am so sorry for your loss.
~ I wish I had the right words, just know I care.
~ I don’t know how you feel, but I am here to help in anyway I can.
~ You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.
~ My favorite memory of your loved one is…
~ I am always just a phone call away
~ Give a hug instead of saying something
~ We all need help at times like this, I am here for you
~ I am usually up early or late, if you need anything
~ Saying nothing, just be with the person
The 10 Best Things to Say to Someone in Grief
In the past we thought that when a child or baby dies the parents recovered quickly or even forgot about
their child. We now know that parents may have sadness and depression for a long time. They may have
sudden outbursts of anger, be afraid of going crazy, or have deep feelings of guilt and fear.
By understanding that your loved one will have spurts of emotions for a long time may help you accept their
feelings and relate to them better.
Encourage your loved one to share. They are still parents. Not only did their baby die, they lost their dreams,
hopes and plans. Remember, they have special memories of who this special little person would be.